There’s a wedding happening every Saturday, and if you’re a single woman, you already know the drill. The top question you get from aunties and guests is always “When are you getting married?” or worse, “The next wedding we are coming for is yours!” Even when you know it comes from a place of love, it has a way of making you feel like being single is a crisis to worry about. Unfortunately, that exact worry is what drives so many women to jump into marriages they aren’t remotely ready for. At 34, Ayanime is happily single. She’s looking forward to marriage, but she refuses to crave it to the point of desperation—and she wants that same peace for you. In this video, she beautifully breaks down how to love up on yourself, heal, and build your own life until the right person arrives.
